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Wednesday, November 28, 2018

Life Lessons: Charlie Brown

John B. Marine | November 28, 2018 | | | Be the first to comment!
Heaven forbid, I love Charlie Brown and The Peanuts cartoons. While those cartoons and comics are classics, I think of Charlie Brown and the issues he faces. Charlie Brown has depression issues and dealing with peers. One time on "John's Blog Space," I blogged about the issues within Charlie Brown. Now for this blog post, I will explore further about this topic.






Life Lessons: Charlie Brown


Let's talk about Chuck.

Charlie Brown
^ original picture credit: giantbomb.com - Charlie Brown. "Why me?"


Charlie Brown is probably not the kid you want to be. He is loved by a number of individuals, but his own issues prevent him from being widely loved. He has never done anything wrong to anyone to warrant dislike. Only thing is... he's star-crossed about a lot of things and never really becomes anyone successful. It just seems as if Charlie Brown can do very little to avoid getting teased or feel like he will never amount much of anything in life. While the Charlie Brown cartoons are funny and classic, I always think about how Charlie Brown just can't seem to really be treated fairly. If he tries to kick a football with Lucy holding, Lucy will move the ball away to where Charlie Brown lands on his back and gets hurt. While other kids were getting candy for Halloween, he gets a rock. So for all intents and purposes, Charlie Brown is just everyone's chew toy. This is further predicated by the fact that Charles Schulz (the creator of The Peanuts cartoons and comics) decided to portray some of his severe depression issues through the eyes of Charlie Brown.

There is one issue I can relate to as an example. Later in "A Charlie Brown Christmas," Charlie takes a wilted Christmas tree and tries to hang a bulb ornament on it. The tree comes down as Charlie Brown thought he killed the Christmas tree. He then says, "oh! Everything I touch gets ruined..." So what do I relate with? I feel sometimes (and with some people) that all I somehow seem good for is ruining things, even when I am trying NOT to ruin things. I recently got my first-ever smartphone (a Motorola e5 Cruise/Play). It came with a cell phone cover that has a holster that you can clip onto your belt. it even got a screen protector equipped to it. I tried to work the cover, but the holster broke off. I couldn't repair it unless I used super glue or something. So I basically broke off a phone clip minutes after getting my new phone. I broke the clip- not the smartphone (which would have been worse that day). However, it made me feel like all I am good for in the eyes of some people that all I am good for is screwing up things when I am obviously not trying to screw things up.

When you put any kind of pressure like this- even in honest and/or unfortunate accidents or accidents that are not entirely our fault, one begins to feel they are only good at being a screw up. I've had to deal with this almost all of my life and still do to this day. Like I do what I can to be less of a screw up to people, but I somehow come through failing in some sort of way. The feeling of failure just makes one feel like failure is inevitable. When that failing moment happens, it is expected by some people, and you feel bad in the company of others. Almost as if you can never make certain peers or loved ones happy or satisfied no matter how hard you try. Almost as if to say, "why bother? All I am ever going to be is a failure in the eyes of some people."

Even whem Charlie Brown has his worst moments, Charlie doesn't go to the point of inflicting violence to himself or others. Charlie Brown doesn't punish himself in extreme ways for every failure he experiences. He doesn't take out his own transgressions on others. All he can do is live life as best as he can. And really... he rarely gets angry or upset whenever things aren't going right. So if anything can be learned from Charlie Brown, just live your life and don't worry too much about everything around you going wrong. People can have the most star-crossed lives but still don't lose focus of remembering all that is positive in this world and in this society.


In Case You're Interested...

Here is my old blog post I did in 2010 on Charlie Brown on his life issues... Charlie Brown and His Issues (John's Blog Space).





That's all for this post. If you want to discuss, here is a question I have for you:

Can you relate to Charlie Brown in any sort of way? How would you handle being someone like Charlie Brown?

Thank you for reading! Take care and be well.

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Friday, November 9, 2018

Dealing With Failed Pregnancies

John B. Marine | November 09, 2018 | | | Be the first to comment!
A mom-to-be's worst fear is to have a failed pregnancy. An unborn child dying can cripple a mother's spirit. The pain of losing an unborn child can be devastating. Therefore, when a pregnancy fails, recovery is a big deal. Recovery involves getting back to good health while also addressing certain psychological issues. This blog post will have advice towards dealing with a failed pregnancy.

Before I Begin...

If you are a mother who suffered any sort of failed pregnancy, my condolences go out to you. Hopefully I can offer some calming words and some advice to you all.

This is a sensitive topic, and I will not be using any pictures to demonstrate the subject matter being discussed.






Dealing With Failed Pregnancies


Being a parent or becoming a parent is a great responsibility and something to take pride in. It takes a lot to keep yourself healthy to successfully deliver birth for when you become pregnant. You then start to get ultrasounds and such to determine the gender of your baby or babies. It then leads to buying toys and furniture for your baby to grow up. You may possibly even have a baby shower to welcome your offspring into the world. And then of course, you go through the process of trying to bring your baby(-ies) into the world. You are hoping you can grow and nurture your offspring to become a part of this world and to accomplish anything he/she puts their mind to. Your offspring may hopefully even be the catalyst for another generation of a family.

However, that can all change if your currently unborn baby(-ies) die. An unborn fetus can suffer a miscarriage, be stillborn, or face some other failed pregnancy thanks to complications of pregnancy. A miscarriage is defined as the unborn fetus dying within 20-28 weeks of pregnancy. A stillborn fetus is a dead fetus after 20 weeks of pregnancy or before or during delivery. There may be other complications that lead to failed pregnancies. Regardless, a failed pregnancy can really affect various parties involved.


Video Insight.

To show what it is like to have a failed pregnancy, I came across this video. This will give you an idea of one would-be mother's journey of a failed pregnancy and getting over it:


^ "How to Cope After Miscarriage | Dealing with A Failed Pregnancy | Losing a Baby - Sharron's Take"

This, though, is just one mother's struggle in this situation. It won't be the same situation for every mother who suffered a failed pregnancy.


The Psychology of Failed Pregnancies.

I have had friends of mine- including a fellow blogger- whom have experienced some sort of failed pregnancy. The opportunity to start or expand a family can all come to a depressing halt with a failed pregnancy. The pain of losing an unborn child/-ren can be devastating. You work so long to keep yourself healthy to successfully deliver your child into the world all goes for not in the case of some kind of failed pregnancy.

In these cases, it is important to have a support system to help a mom-to-be feel better about herself after a failed pregnancy. After all, losing an unborn child is just as damaging as losing an actual family member or loved one. So it helps to have people to help in feeling better at the loss of an unborn child. A chance to start or grow a family is lost, and all the money and energy towards welcoming offspring in the world is all null and void thanks to whatever complication(s) of pregnancy happened. Such would-be mothers can suffer depression or any number of health ailments.

Equally, a failed pregnancy can affect would-be fathers as well. A father looking forward to seeing his future children can also take the pain of her would-be mother having a failed pregnancy. There are those dads-to-be who are as reluctant to meet their future children who can also feel as depressed. In times like these, it helps for both the would-be mom and the would-be dad to come together and work together to return to happier times.


Try Again at Pregnancy?

I would say to take your time. You don't NEED to have a child; you are just fortunate to be able to have children and to deliver birth. March of Dimes recommends women wait 18 months before trying to conceive again. This is so your body can regain a healthy status after a failed pregnancy.

If you want to read more about getting pregnant again (even if after a failed pregnancy), this is a resource you can look up: How long should you wait before getting pregnant again? | March of Dimes.


Now for some final thoughts.




Dealing With Failed Pregnancies: Final Thoughts


If for some reason you are a mom-to-be dealing with a miscarriage or stillbirth or some other failed pregnancy, I am terribly sorry for your loss. Having known friends of mine whom have endured some kind of failed pregnancy, it is a tough time dealing with such tragedy. You look forward to starting a family or growing a family. Something like the failed pregnancies I made mention to just makes the pain agonizing. It helps that you have a support system to help you return to normalcy. In addition, it helps to offer hope that if you become pregnant again, you will be better able to handle pregnancy and hopefully successfully deliver your offspring into the world next chance you get.





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Thursday, November 8, 2018

Happy Birthday, John's Life Space!

John B. Marine | November 08, 2018 | Be the first to comment!
"John's Life Space" is one year old today! This is my life-issues blog where I try to offer advice to any number of different life topics. This blog was dedicated to my late grandmother as I created it. As with all of my content, I am hoping my life issues blog can help provide some positive energy and hope to people who want support. I do what I can to try to offer some calming words and unique advice to any number of different life issues. I want to thank everyone who found my blog on life issues and hope that it has meant something to at least someone.


Future Plans for "John's Life Space."

I am considering offering more topics for John's Life Space. Mostly, I want to perhaps offer health and fitness insights as well as financial-related issues. The focus still regards life issues. That will NOT change with this blog. One thing I have been pleased about is gaining some attention from a number of entities. Most notably was BetterHelp. I hope I can work with more people to try to offer an online place for people to gain insight and help for a number of issues.

There are too many places where there is negative energy and a lack of help for people who really need it. I want to change that starting with my life issues blog here. I am just getting started with content here. Stay with me to hopefully go on a bigger and better journey towards offering something positive online for once!





I am pleased to celebrate the birthday of this blog with all of you. Stay tuned- I hope to add more topics in the future. Be sure to contact me if you have any ideas for future topics for "John's Life Space" or any of my other blogs. Thank you for reading! Take care and be well.

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