Before I Begin...
If you are a mother who suffered any sort of failed pregnancy, my condolences go out to you. Hopefully I can offer some calming words and some advice to you all.This is a sensitive topic, and I will not be using any pictures to demonstrate the subject matter being discussed.
Dealing With Failed Pregnancies
Being a parent or becoming a parent is a great responsibility and something to take pride in. It takes a lot to keep yourself healthy to successfully deliver birth for when you become pregnant. You then start to get ultrasounds and such to determine the gender of your baby or babies. It then leads to buying toys and furniture for your baby to grow up. You may possibly even have a baby shower to welcome your offspring into the world. And then of course, you go through the process of trying to bring your baby(-ies) into the world. You are hoping you can grow and nurture your offspring to become a part of this world and to accomplish anything he/she puts their mind to. Your offspring may hopefully even be the catalyst for another generation of a family.
However, that can all change if your currently unborn baby(-ies) die. An unborn fetus can suffer a miscarriage, be stillborn, or face some other failed pregnancy thanks to complications of pregnancy. A miscarriage is defined as the unborn fetus dying within 20-28 weeks of pregnancy. A stillborn fetus is a dead fetus after 20 weeks of pregnancy or before or during delivery. There may be other complications that lead to failed pregnancies. Regardless, a failed pregnancy can really affect various parties involved.
Video Insight.
To show what it is like to have a failed pregnancy, I came across this video. This will give you an idea of one would-be mother's journey of a failed pregnancy and getting over it:^ "How to Cope After Miscarriage | Dealing with A Failed Pregnancy | Losing a Baby - Sharron's Take"
This, though, is just one mother's struggle in this situation. It won't be the same situation for every mother who suffered a failed pregnancy.
The Psychology of Failed Pregnancies.
I have had friends of mine- including a fellow blogger- whom have experienced some sort of failed pregnancy. The opportunity to start or expand a family can all come to a depressing halt with a failed pregnancy. The pain of losing an unborn child/-ren can be devastating. You work so long to keep yourself healthy to successfully deliver your child into the world all goes for not in the case of some kind of failed pregnancy.In these cases, it is important to have a support system to help a mom-to-be feel better about herself after a failed pregnancy. After all, losing an unborn child is just as damaging as losing an actual family member or loved one. So it helps to have people to help in feeling better at the loss of an unborn child. A chance to start or grow a family is lost, and all the money and energy towards welcoming offspring in the world is all null and void thanks to whatever complication(s) of pregnancy happened. Such would-be mothers can suffer depression or any number of health ailments.
Equally, a failed pregnancy can affect would-be fathers as well. A father looking forward to seeing his future children can also take the pain of her would-be mother having a failed pregnancy. There are those dads-to-be who are as reluctant to meet their future children who can also feel as depressed. In times like these, it helps for both the would-be mom and the would-be dad to come together and work together to return to happier times.
Try Again at Pregnancy?
I would say to take your time. You don't NEED to have a child; you are just fortunate to be able to have children and to deliver birth. March of Dimes recommends women wait 18 months before trying to conceive again. This is so your body can regain a healthy status after a failed pregnancy.If you want to read more about getting pregnant again (even if after a failed pregnancy), this is a resource you can look up: How long should you wait before getting pregnant again? | March of Dimes.
Now for some final thoughts.
Dealing With Failed Pregnancies: Final Thoughts
If for some reason you are a mom-to-be dealing with a miscarriage or stillbirth or some other failed pregnancy, I am terribly sorry for your loss. Having known friends of mine whom have endured some kind of failed pregnancy, it is a tough time dealing with such tragedy. You look forward to starting a family or growing a family. Something like the failed pregnancies I made mention to just makes the pain agonizing. It helps that you have a support system to help you return to normalcy. In addition, it helps to offer hope that if you become pregnant again, you will be better able to handle pregnancy and hopefully successfully deliver your offspring into the world next chance you get.
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