There are a few things to realize. Let me say something in a respectful context- the world does not revolve around you. You are not the root of all evil or the bane of society. If you are seriously a bad person or someone that causes disasters everywhere, how come anybody has stopped you yet? For one thing, if you are not doing well at present, there is at least one other person who may be in a more troublesome situation than you. You may think you are doing bad because you are getting ridiculed and that everything bad seems to happen to just you. Meanwhile, someone may be in a much worse situation that leads to harm (and even death) to oneself or others. So your situation is potentially nowhere near where most other people have stumbled. If you feel you are a terrible person, you can always learn to change to where you are better liked.
Some people are firm believers in the notion that bad things happen for a reason. These are moments that can be translated into finding strength and courage in even the darkest of times. Seek these opportunities to make yourself a better person. When it seems like you are always on the receiving end of hardships, always remember that someone may have it worse. Thinking that you are the one always getting into trouble makes you realize other people may be going through the same pain, if not worse pain. The natural response is to meet your own demons head-on while not worrying about other people. If you do meet someone who may be facing similar troubles, let this be a time to work together and band together to live happier and better for the future.
There may be a point where you may have the same issue(s) as someone else. Having the same issues as someone else could help you towards maybe solving the same (or similar) issue together. It is usually great to know that someone else is in similar pain and that you could maybe work together. At the same time, you begin to realize others may be in the same peril and may be reluctant to work together to resolve an issue. This can help you to build better relationships with others as well as having support from others to take on different issues.
No matter what you go through in life, just remember that not just you are having certain issues. Not everything is your fault, and you alone don't have to suffer. Unless you totally feel worthless or useless, just remember that other people may suffer from the same issues, and sometimes even worse conditions than what you are experiencing.
I am John Marine, and I am here to help. Perhaps this post was able to help you out to an extent. Let's start a discussion if you are inclined:
How do you deal with times when you feel everything bad is only happening to you?
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