The One That Got Away

Ever loved someone who seemed perfect for you? Now you're with somebody else (or still single), feeling like you lost the best partner you could ever have. That ex-lover is "the one that got away." Depending on how much that individual meant to you, you may end up feeling terrible that the one who possibly made you complete as a lover no longer wants anything to do with you. The way I've understood "the one that got away," there is someone out there who makes you complete when you look for love; but when you or that person leaves you, you feel like the best possible person to be with is gone. Almost as if to say you let go of the perfect (or seemingly perfect) lover that you want no one else to want to be with, or you missed out on a golden opportunity to be with someone who could complete you as a person. So you end up feeling like the best possible fit for you is now gone. Basically, making you be relegated to finding second best.

We are always under the presumption that there is that special someone who is the perfect fit for us. Perhaps you get to meet that special someone; perhaps you have to keep looking. If you do manage to be with that someone who completes you and that you can love most, you would hate to lose that person whom you felt the most complete and comfortable with. You want to make sure that one you love is YOURS and yours alone. What breaks you up could be of your doing or of that other individual. The other individual may find somebody else and probably live a happier life with another lover, leaving you in shambles. Maybe you will find some other person to love but never feel completely happy being with that lover as opposed to when you were with your now now ex-lover.

I am no relationship expert, and I have never been in any proper relationship. However, I do gain somewhat a grasp on the concept of "the one that got away." All I can say is that you just keep finding the one who completes you most and who you want to be with the most. Maybe you find that someone but then feel happier with someone else. If you want to be taken and loved, find someone whom you can build chemistry with. Love, though, is not about finding the one who is the most perfect; it is instead finding someone whom you can love for a long time. Perhaps love 'til death do you part. Relationships shouldn't be like buying a new mattress, buying a new computer, buying new appliances, or anything that has to periodically be changed. Yet still, do not give up on love if you want to be in any loving relationship. If you somehow no longer are loved by this individual you fell for and can never find anyone who was seemingly the perfect fit for you, then you really did fall in love with one who got away. And if there is someone who truly got away from you, just try to find someone who is not as perfect yet still loving and caring. Perfection isn't everything.





That concludes this blog post. If you want to discuss this topic, let's do so.

What do you think about the ones who get away in our love lives? How do you deal with the pain of letting "that one" getting away?

First post of 2018 for "John's Life Space!" HAPPY NEW YEAR! Thank you for reading! Take care and be well.

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