Some days aren't your best. Sometimes, there is one day out of all the others where you have felt your lowest or unluckiest. Maybe it is one where something bad always happens; only wondering what else can go wrong on that day. It is a part of life some of us deal with. How do you deal with days where you feel like that one specific day is usually when bad things happen? I hope I can shed some light on this topic and offer some calming advice.
That Least Favorite Day...
Everyone has some kind of day or days they dislike the most. Usually it is because it is a day that has offered little happiness or provides awful memories. To many people, Friday the 13th is often the unluckiest day of the year. While Friday the 13th is usually one of the worst days for most people, most others can think of many other days of the year that usually are their personal worst. This can be a specific day on the calendar or a certain day among a holiday period (for example- the first Saturday of a year). It may not be any holiday, but it instead could be (for example) the day you broke up with your now ex-lover. Regardless one certain day will make us cringe or hope that everything goes absolutely well.
Do I Have a Least Favorite Day?
Maybe you are wondering... this blog post was created on Halloween, so is there any link to this topic and Halloween? Actually, yes there is. Halloween has been my own unfortunate day with a number of bad memories. In 1997, I was suspended for the first time from school for fighting on Halloween. In 2002, it was my final day as a student of Lamar University after my hopes of working on my Computer Animation major lasted only 11 weeks. Most of that due to a number of horrible experiences. I didn't get my portion of a team project for my Psychology class in 2003 on Halloween, and that only added to my poor moments on Halloween. So every time Halloween comes along, I almost feel like sleeping through it or wanting Halloween to end. I otherwise just wonder what new awful memory I can add to a day that has not been one of my best or one of my most fortunate.
How Do You Deal With Such Least Favorite Days?
The most important thing to remember is that for as much as one day can be absolutely horrible, there is equally a chance for that day to be happy. Or who knows- many happy things can happen to you on a day you hate! You can hate any day on the calendar, but always remain positive and hopeful the day will be a good one. At least try to enjoy each day even if you do not think it will be your best. If a day ends up being a horrible one, just remember that tomorrow is a new day. Just live that day as best as you can and let whatever happens happen. Also remember that whatever bad that has happened on this specific day are in the past. Rarely does history repeat itself on the same day. So just make sure to make today's rendition of a hated day better than previous iterations of such a day. If disaster does indeed happen, just make sure to remain positive and hopeful and try to learn from your poor experience(s) that day. The more you are able to keep a positive attitude, the better the day will be even if it ends up being a bad day for you. Just don't live a certain day like the absolute worst-case scenario will likely happen. Bringing yourself down like this only increases your chances of failure or something really bad happen. So just live a historically bad day like any other. Just pretend nothing bad has ever happened on one specific day.
Maybe this will help you deal with such harsh days.
I honestly want to know if any of my life advice is helping. I don't want to feel like I am only doing it just to get views. I make things like this in hopes of helping people who may most need help and guidance. So that's it for this post.
How do you deal with specific least favorite days of yours? What advice would you suggest?
Thank you for reading! Take care and be well.
